The view from my window was more beautiful than ever when I woke up this last Sunday morning, the sky a wonderful blue and only the smallest wisp of cloud in the distance. I haven’t yet felt the real impact of the fact that I’m leaving yet, but nonetheless the day seemed a bit subdued as I gathered my things from around the now-bare room and grabbed a backpack on the way to the castle for a final walk in the quiet morning.
I circled the fortress alongside a red kayaker that was paddling in the same direction, both of us taking our time in enjoying the warmth and the waves on the rocks. I didn’t need my iPod this time, instead just listening to my footsteps and the surf.
I had to hurry back towards the house once I skirted a group of tourists and exited: Abuelo was taking me to a “curro” this morning in the mountain. Every year the wild horses that roam around the mountains are rounded up by the different owners to have their hair cut and their sides marked. Diego, one of the cousins, and I rode along with Abuelo to the top of the mountain where hordes of guys (and a few women) on horseback moved through the trees and small clusters of watchers to gather the herd together and keep the biggest males from fighting too much. All the bystanders were grouped in the fenced area with the wild horses – you could move throughout the animals freely if you were careful about where you walked.
I had wanted to ride a horse at some point before leaving Galicia since it’s such a large part of the culture in this part of Spain, but I hadn’t found the time or the opportunity beforehand. Not wanting to leave without trying, I approached one of the guys on horseback and explained to him my situation. He was happy to let me climb up behind him on “Dueno,” a beautiful although temperamental white horse, and take me for a short ride through the masses of wild creatures. That was the absolute last thing on my to-do list before departing – checked off without a moment to spare!
The three of us later encountered Pablo, one of Roman’s brothers, with his kids Rosaura and Roman (pequenito) and we all sat down in the shade for a spell to share some spicy octopus. I also had a bite of “churrasgo” that I didn’t enjoy too much… Even less when I was told it was the meat of a baby horse. At least I tried it. Before leaving we met a friendly Portuguese photographer that Abuelo had sworn was American like me, and the two older guys talked cameras for awhile before we said our farewells and headed for home again.
I ate lunch at Abuelo’s house with the rest of the “curro”-goers and another of Roman’s brothers: spaghetti wasn’t the most Spanish final lunch in the country but I’ve promised to never buy another homemade tomato sauce since everyone makes their own delicious simple version here. As I said my final goodbyes I was given by Roman’s parents an absolutely amazing bracelet that is fashioned after the antique money pieces and shows one of the gates from the castle by the sea. It’s from a company in Spain called Uno de 50, meaning there are only 50 of the same type of piece in existence. It’s gorgeous and I can’t wait to show it off when I get home.
I returned to the house to finish packing once and for all while waiting for Ricky to come by to pick up the guitar that I’ve have for so long. While hanging around the house for awhile with the family I received a going-away gift from them as well: an unbelievable necklace of a simple silver sea star, made in Baiona and a perfect reminder of my second home. It goes well with the bracelet and is just my style… I didn’t know how to express my gratitude.
As the sun got lower I zipped up the guitar case for the last time and carried it outside to Ricky’s car, where he promptly took out the Spanish guitar book and told me to take that with me and keep practicing back in the United States. We went for a short drive around just to chat once more before I left. We passed along the same coast Miguel and I had traveled by, and I showed him how to get up to the military base that I’d found so cool since Ricky has never been there before.
He dropped me back off at the house too quickly. He’s never been the most reliable when it comes to making plans but he said he’d come visit me next summer if he had the money. If the US trip doesn’t work, we’ll both go to England and see a bit of the 2012 Olympics together. It’s a far-off dream, but who knows, with luck it will happen. I’ll miss him and our way off-track guitar lessons.
Before showering and heading to an early bed – well, early for Spain… I doubt 11:30PM seems early to anyone on the East coast of the Atlantic – I joined Carmen in the garden as the sun went down for one last bit of yoga together. She told me we could continue it together over Skype when we talk, but she has to keep practicing on her own in return. One day she’ll get “King of the Dance” right, she just needs to work on it.
I didn’t have much to give to the family in return, but I tried to write a small poem in Spanish as a modest thank-you and I’ll-miss-you. The Spanish is as follows:
Me marcho ahora de este lugar
Un pueblo tan mágico, al lado del mar
La gente tan Buena que ahora me despiden
Y me dicen: Volverás” a Baiona, Galicia
Jamás olvidaré el cariño que me disteis
O el encanto del país en que vivía este año
Gracias por todo: ayudarme, apoyarme
Darme otra perspective de España y el mundo
Agradezco mucho, mucho y espero que nos vemos
En cualquier lado del Atlántico
Y en cualquier buen momento
Os echaré de menos más que podeis saber
Pero volveré, seguro, a vosotros y Baiona
The translation is roughly: “I’m leaving now from this place, a town so magical, at the side of the ocean. The good people that now wave me off and say: “You’ll come back” to Baiona, Galicia. I’ll never forget the caring you’ve given me or the charm of the country in which I’ve lived this year. Thank you for everything: for helping me, supporting me, giving me another perspective of Spain and the world. I appreciate it so much and hope that we see each other on whichever side of the Atlantic and in whichever good moment. I’ll miss you all more than you can know but I’ll return, surely, to you and Baiona.”
It wasn’t much, but I think they got the message well enough. I’ll be back in the United States of America by the time this is posted publicly, but I still don’t think I really comprehend the fact that my 5AM wake-up tomorrow is the end of something, more than an adventure, and the return full-circle of a long time away from Pennsylvania. I’d write a long time away from home, but it’s quite true now that my roots are in Galicia too. It’s my other home, even if I’m leaving now. There are legends of witches and ancient Celtic magic deep-seated in Galicia: I’ve heard enough to believe that there might be a bewitchment requiring visitors to always return, once they’ve walked the castle, bathed in the sea, felt the sand in their toes and counted the stars on a clear night. It’s the end of something, but in my opinion nothing like this can ever really end. Relationships continue, feelings translate to another language wordlessly, and memories are always there.
Word of the Day: DESPEDIR – to say goodbye (despedida – the farewell, the goodbye)












